![]() ![]() Begging for love is such a painful way to live that they get angry. Recognition and being loved is so important to Enneagram 2s that the fear turns them into an aggressive and selfish lover. If nothing they naturally do whatever it takes to attract the ones they love, they even start to act possessively without realizing it’s wrong because in some way they think that’s justified (“Toxic” from Britney Spears is your soundtrack). On an unhealthy level, type twos start to manipulate people so they love them or feel in debt with them. These attitudes can be born from an unconscious state of mind which supports old beliefs that sustain dependent relationships. To feel the right to ask something back, they do more valuable things, so it seems like the other person is in debt with them. If they feel they are losing their beloved person they can become really possessive and intense by doing whatever they can to keep people close. So, Enneagram type 2s usually seduce people by paying special attention to them. That’s the best way to ensure there is a solid relationship between the Helper and their significant other. They enjoy long and deep conversations that open the way to what is intimate and most treasured by the other, that’s the most certain way to connect and win their trust and love. In the love field, type 2s are passionate and give everything to their beloved ones. Well, I’ll take the risk of saying that this song was written by a Two Type, just for this part: “Just say that you need me, I can’t care ’bout anything but you”. Have you ever heard that song by The Cardigans: “love me, love me, say that you love me”?. ![]()
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